In His Own Words
About Him
I am a kind, open-minded, easy-going, fun-spirited, adventurous person. I enjoy my immediate family (my "ex" and two children), extended family and also friendships. I am fortunate to have good friendships...I've known my longest friend since we were five years old which i think gives you a good idea of the type of person I am.
I have a lot of interests and focus on nurturing my mind, body and soul. As far as body, I'm into living a healthy lifestyle and follow Dr. Mark Hyman's approach (reference his book "The Pegan Diet"). I also like to exercise and be active. I'm into tennis (played competitive as a kid), cycling--indoor (love my Peloton) and outdoor, hiking, hot yoga, Pilates and taking my dogs for walks and to the park. As far as mind, I believe in lifelong learning and am always reading and looking to learn new things. For example, during Covid lockdown, I really got into cooking and trying new recipes. For soul/spiritual, I'm not religious (Presbyterian by family and also attended eight years of Catholic school), but I am spiritual. I'd say that I most identify with Buddhism. I practice mindfulness and meditation on a daily basis.
While I have lots of interests, my passion is sailing and I keep a nice sail boat in SF. I try to sail as much as possible in the beautiful SF Bay and other parts of the world. I've captained numerous charters in the Mediterranean.
As far as Likes and Dislikes...I like a lot of things...some of which I mentioned above. I really enjoy travel, learning, music (live shows), etc. Dislikes...people who criticize, complain and compare as I like coming from a place of empowerment.
Overall, I think I have a very positive outlook on life. While the world has a lot of problems, I choose to focus on what's good about it and the wonders of our world. I think my daily mantras as listed below sum up the attitude I actively nurture:
Be loving
Be kind
Be compassion
Be impeccable with my word
Don't take things personally
Don't make assumptions
Do my best
About His Ideal Match
I'm looking for a woman who shares similar qualities and interests as me. I'm also interested in a woman who is focused on her personal growth of mind, body and soul. I am looking for someone who has a good sense of who they are and what they want out life. I want a friend and romantic companion with whom I can build a great relationship to share this adventure we call life.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
San Francisco, California, United States | |
Gender: |
Chiver | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
6' 3" (191cm) | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Color: |
Grey | |
Eye Color: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
French | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short romance; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Kids: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Kids: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
San Francisco (California, United States) | ||
Gender: |
Chivette | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Color: |
Any | ||
Eye Color: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Favorite Chive Post: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have Kids: |
Any | ||
Want Kids: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humor: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behavior: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humor; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favorite jeans) |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Punk; Rock |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Baseball; Camping; Cycling; Hiking; Pool; Sailing; Shooting; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using Chive Dating: |
Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
